I make plans because I want to feel normal and get out of the house to socialize. I cancel plans because sometimes the pain keeps my head on the pillow. Yes, I feel bad about it. Yes, I know it is disappointing. No, I can not have fun in this condition. Yes, Advil is nothing more than kidney killing candy for me. Yes, I wish that whatever outrageous and ill conceived advice you had worked. No, it does not work. Yes, you should go to medical school so you can get paid for bad advice. Yes, my headache is talking right now.